Twelve Ways to Love

  1. Listen without interrupting. (Proverbs 18:13 CEV). - It's stupid and embarrassing to give an answer before you listen.

  2. Speak without accusing. (James 1:19 CEV). - My dear friends, you should be quick to listen and slow to speak or to get angry.

  3. Give without sparing. (Proverbs 21:23-27 CEV). - Watching what you say can save you a lot of trouble. If you are proud and conceited, everyone will say, "You're a snob!" If you want too much and are too lazy to work, it could be fatal. But people who obey God are always generous. The Lord despises the offerings of wicked people with evil motives.

  4. Pray without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9 CEV). - We have not stopped praying for you since the first day we heard about you. In fact, we always pray that God will show you everything He wants you to do and that you may have all the wisdom and understanding that His Spirit gives.

  5. Answer without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1 CEV). - A dry crust of bread eaten in peace and quiet is better than a feast eaten where everyone argues.

  6. Share without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15-17 CEV). - Love should always make us tell the truth. Then we will grow in every way and be more like Christ, the head of the body. Christ holds it together and makes all of its parts work perfectly, as it grows and becomes strong because of love. As a follower of the Lord, I order you to stop living like stupid, godless people.

  7. Enjoy without complaint. (Philippians 2:13-16 CEV). - God is working in you to make you willing and able to obey Him. Do everything without grumbling or arguing. Then you will be the pure and innocent children of God. You live among people who are crooked and evil, but you must not do anything that they can say is wrong. Try to shine as lights among the people of this world, as you hold firmly to the message that gives life. Then on the day when Christ returns, I can take pride in you. I can also know that my work and efforts were not useless.

  8. Trust without wavering. (1 Corinthians 13:7 CEV). - Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting.

  9. Forgive without punishing. (Colossians3:12-13 CEV). - God loves you and has chosen you as His own special people. So be gentle, kind, humble, meek, and patient. Put up with each other, and forgive anyone who does you wrong, just as Christ has forgiven you.

  10. Promise without forgetting. (Proverbs 13:12-13 CEV). - Not getting what you want can make you feel sick, but a wish that comes true is a life-giving tree. If you reject God's teaching, you will pay the price; if you obey His commands, you will be rewarded.

  11. Honor without fail. (Hebrews 13:4 KJV). – Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers (immoral) and adulterers God will judge.

  12. Love God by keeping the Ten Commandments (John 14:15 GNB). - "If you love Me, you will obey My commandments."